缘份，是个抽象的概念，它摸不着，看不见，猜不透。人与人之间的相知相识，无不是因为他们之间的那一份缘。更或许，同舟共渡的船客能共舟也是一份缘。 　　刻意追求来的东西是无缘份可言的。追寻的东西，往往没结果。如旅游：在来回途中的乐趣，往往比在目的地收获的要多。

与自己失之交臂的东西，急需时倾尽全力的去找也找不到，最后却发现原来它一直在自己的身边，只是找到时，自己却不再需要它，那是有缘无份。无缘份的我们不必强求，有缘无份的我们也不该挽留，这些东西是无法永远掌握在自己手中的，那么便让它们随风而逝吧。一切顺其自然，免得苦苦追寻找的那一份缘，到手后，却发现跟自己心目中的相差甚远，想放弃，又舍不得，弄得前进的脚步竟全是缘份的负荷。

人都说：缘份天注定。很多的偶然，每次的巧合，不经意的邂逅，让人感觉到冥冥中确实有一股力量存在。“嘿，又见面了。”“这世界真小。”“我们真有缘”，“难道这是缘份”？当上帝看到这一切时，他偷偷的笑了。威力无穷的魔棒指挥着这一切，给人们的脸上带来无穷的惊喜，还有心底的那份感激。 　

不要说自己不懂缘份。缘份抓不住的，抓，已经有了一分刻意，只能用心去领会、感悟。缘份来匆匆，去也匆匆，你感到它来时，那是一阵惊喜；如果它走时你才感到，那是一种惆怅和悲伤。有些逝去了便不会再来，你只能遗憾一辈子。记住：缘份是一种自然，不是刻意。　　

缘份无需等待。她要来的时候自然会来，不必对缘份翘首以待，乃至望穿秋水。只要用心去感觉，那已经是很不错的了。缘份无规律，苦苦的等待着一份缘，很可能会是等不到。苦苦等待，那是刻意，那时即使缘份擦身而过，你也感觉不到。与其如此，不如放弃等待，去多用心去体会，或者，缘份已来到了你的身边呢。 　　

相信缘份的人多是敏感的，感情细腻而且很有爱心。他们知道，每一分缘都是难得的，求不来的，所以会尽力善待缘份带来的一切，包括好的和不够理想的。你信缘吗？你会惜缘吗？

[ 珍 ]

10:09 AM

在人的一生，会结识到一些朋友，从这些朋友，会认识到知己， 从知己到知心好友。。但可惜的，在这一群朋友当中，你往往很难交到真正的知己。。 要记住一句话知己难寻！！

那其实对你们而言， 友谊到底是什么？我应该说‘友谊’这个字对大家来说有不同的想法，各人有各人的想法，我也不能说大家一定要同意我的想法或说法。。

对我而言，朋友是一辈子的，是永远的。。真正的朋友是在你最需要的时候，最难过的时候，陪伴着你，守护着你，给于你建议。。无论何时何地，心情好坏，真正的朋友会永远的陪着你，聊着天下事。。朋友不是用来出卖的，否则你一旦伤害了朋友，你有可能永远永远的失去他/她。。我依然相信你如何对待朋友，朋友将如何对待你。。

朋友就是朋友， 为何要做出或说出可能会伤害到朋友的话呢？假如你知道你的言行举止会伤害到你们的友谊，那这样所值得吗？对我而言，这是不值得的。。

可能曾经有朋友伤害到你，但不妨原谅他们，可能只不过他们是无心的伤害到你。。可能有些人在想，有朋友伤害你，为什么我不能生气呢？生气？当然可以生气。。 可是你想一想生气能解决问题吗？完全不能。。 生气只会伤害到自己。。 那又何必生气呢？最重要的是你其他的朋友知道你的个性，也知道你不是像他所说的就行了。。

其实最重要的是要珍惜眼前人。。

[ 珍 ]

4:11 PM

“人有悲欢离合，月有阴晴圆缺”, 这一句话，可以看成月亮的回答：月亮也不是完美无缺的，她也有着自己固有的悲痛，同人有“悲欢离合”一样，她也有着“阴晴圆缺”，这世界本身就不是完美的，每一件事物都处在自己固有的缺憾之中。明白了这一点，再怨天尤人有什么意思呢？

其实这世界上不如意的事十之八九，不顺心，不顺意的事还多着，何必为了一件不愉快的事而伤心又感到绝望呢? 开心或不开心只不过是一念之间，但为何不从另一方面看，无论开不开心，世界依然地在转，那何必为了他而烦恼和难过呢？ 人生就是这样，开心也要过， 不开心也要过，那为何不开开心心的过着每一天？那到底人们为何会了什么不开心和烦恼呢？

有些人会为了爱情而不开心。。 为什么人们会为了爱情而不开心呢？

暗恋因该是爱情的一个过程吧，那我们就先来谈谈暗恋吧。。 每个人因该会经历过暗恋。。有些人会认为暗恋是不开心的，因为你爱的人不爱你，爱你的人却不是你最爱的。。 虽然暗恋的滋味有时是甜中带酸， 酸中又带点甜味， 但假如你往另一方面看的话， 其实暗恋是一个美好的回忆。。 虽然你爱的人不爱你，但起码你认为他是值得你去爱的，他也知道你对他的心意。。更何况这些回忆可以永远的留在你的心里。。所以暗恋其实可以是一个甜密与美好的回忆哦。。

那爱情到底是什么?

爱，就是一件千回百转的事，是一种经历。其实爱情会经历过酸甜苦辣的过程, 经过这些过程才会真正知道谁是你最爱的，也是最爱你的人。。在爱情的世界里, 没有对或错, 只有珍惜与不珍惜。珍惜你所爱的人是最重要的。。珍惜应该珍惜的,放弃应该放弃的。。

有人认为爱一个人会爱到无可救药，一天一天越来越无可救药，一生一次爱你到无可救药，你才慢慢体会到，幸福是被爱的人需要。。‘幸福是被爱的人需要’这句话是真的。。 每一个被爱的人需要的不是什么，而渴望的只不过是幸福。。 一旦得不到幸福， 得到的只是伤害， 不愉快。。假如是该放弃的话， 千万不要继续不肯放手。。这样的话，对你只不过是伤害。。有时因为曾经受过伤，曾经遭离弃，才会懂得更加去珍惜身边的人，懂得如何去爱一个人，爱一个自己不愿失去的人。。

但假如从另一方面看，起码你们有渡过快乐与美好的回忆。。。

有些人会为了友谊而不开心。。 为什么人们会为了友谊而不开心呢？

待续。。

[ 珍]

5:13 PM

Haha... Bored zhen is here again.. Haha.. Now so so bored lor... Cos now not at my own office.. Now is at a Training Lab.. As today is the start for students to upload their graduate portfolio.. But till now no student come in.. Haha.. I can continue to wait and no one will come in de lor.. And i need to station here for 2 weeks.. Haha.. That means till nxt week fri lor.. Haha.. No choice.. Haha.. I wanted to sleep liao.. Haha.. Help.. Haha... Hmmm Then let me have an update ba.. Although i might not remember what i did liao.. Haha..

* 29 JanuarY 2007, MondaY *
A very very busy day for me... Haha... Have been doing continuously of Updating of Prospectus & Course information for all course and i did it for the whole whole day and i could not finished it lor.. There was a lot for me to update.. Haha.. So no choice.. Haha.. I will be busy for the whole week lor.. Haha.. Cos still need to create few thousand pages for the graduate portfolio..

* 30 JanuarY 2007, TuesdaY *
Haiz... Have been continuing to do the updates of the course information, as JAE is starting soon.. So the information must be up-to-date de.. Haha.. So now all rushing.. Haha.. In the afternoon, Ernest [my supervisor] more funny.. Sudden come in at 3:11pm telling me that got urgents things that need me to do.. Haha.. Then he asked me to attend a meeting but he only tell me which level and which lobby.. But he nv tell me which room is it.. Haha.. Make me go and searched for the room.. Haha.. And then i realise that the meeting started at 3pm and i reached there at ard 3.30pm.. Haha... Luckily nothing important de.. Just teaching simple functionality of the webtrend system [webtrend system is the report of how many people viewing our web in different days] .. Haha.. Actually Ernest and my colleague is attending de.. But Ernest is busy and he could not find my colleague haha.. So no choice need to find me.. Haha..

Haha.. And i dun even had the access to login to the system so i only need to listen and take note of it and inform of Ernest what is it about.. Haha.. Finally the meeting ended at ard 4.30pm.. Haha.. When i am about to leave the room, Ron [who was in charge of the new system] called me and ask me who will be going to the meeting which is on Thursday 10am.. Haha.. Then i told him that Ernest and my colleague will be going to that meeting as previously, Ernest send a email to me saying that he and my colleague will be going.. Haha.. But he forget to send a email to Ron and tell him that who will be going.. Haha.. In the end, make Ron come and ask me.. Haha..

In the end, Hong Boon [who was in charge of the new system too] called me too.. Joking with me saying that later am i going back to teach Ernest about the webtrend system.. Haha.. Then i told him, no choice lor.. No one free to come and only i can come.. Haha.. I even told him that Ernest sudden call me to come lor.. Then i dun even know what it is about lor.. Haha.. And he say, "then now u know what is it about liao?" Haha.. of course lah... I cannot dun know lor... HAving the meeting for 1 hour lor.. Haha.. How can dun know what is it about.. Haha.. Then he even told Ron saying that i have no problem in it de.. Haha.. Also dun know why he say like that.. Maybe i had not much problem in doing the wcm system [The new system that i have been doing] ba.. As i had been told by Hong Boon saying that i always asked the qns that other school nv asked.. But other schools always ask the qns that i nv ask de.. And is all schools asking the same qns expect me.. Haha.. So when he was curious that why i nv ask the qns that other schools ask, he will go have a check at my progress.. Haha... And he found out i had not much problem.. Haha..

Then Hong Boon and Ron sudden say that they think i dun have the access to the webtrend system.. Haha.. Then i told them.. Yup.. I dun have it.. And Hong Boon say that dun worry, they will confirm give me the access to the new system.. (-_-!!).. Haha.. After all these, finally i am back to work.. Haha.. Haiz.. Continuing to update the system.. Haha...

Hope that i can finished it soon ba.. Haha..

* 31 January 2007, WednesdaY *
ARg~~~ Continue to do the updating for the course information.. Haha.. TOo much things to upload liao.. Haha.. And finally... My PC is being upgraded.. Haha... Now it had 1 GB of RAM.. Haha.. FAster liao.. Haha.. So so happy Hehe.. Finally it is being upgraded.. Haha.. Cos my OC is very very slow lor.. Especially also running dreamweaver and fireworks.. Haha.. And by the end of the day, i finished updated all the course information... Haha.. Haha.. So so happy.. Cos need to have a rest first.. Haha..

Haha.. After work, meet zongyu and weizhen to go shopping.. Haha.. Meet zongyu first then go to popular to buy things then went to meet weizhen at 7.05pm at Long John Silver.. We chat a lot of things while eating.. Haha.. So so fun.. But too bad... Our xiao mei, shan, nv come.. Haha.. The 4 sisters have not met together for a long time liao lor.. Always only we three.. Or only me and zongyu.. Haha.. Shan always gone missing de.. Haha.. No choice ba.. Cos she also too busy liao.. Haha... Must take care hor.. Xiao MEi.. Haha.. HAha..

Back to the outing ba.. After eating, we went to shop ard for weizhen birthday present.. Haha.. Luckily , she found a watch that she like it very much.. It's a Guess watch lor.. Haha... After that went shopping ard.. Haha.. Both of them bought a clothes that they like and suits them lor.. Haha.. I nv buy.. Haha.. Cos want to save money liao.. Haha... Maybe nxt time then see got suits me de meh.. If got then see whether wan to buy or not ba.. Cos i no money liao.. (-_-!!).. Haha..

* 1 Feb 2007, ThursdaY *
Haha.. Haha.. Today is a busy day for me too.. Cos i need to create 1590 pages in the wcm system.. Haha.. Luckily last week i create half of it and now left half of it to go .. Haha.. In the morning, went for a meeting.. Stun!! Haha.. Initally i no need to go de lor.. But now.. Arg~~ i still need to attend the meeting lor.. Haha.. SO so sian.. Haha.. Haha.. Nvm lor.. Just go for the meeting lor.. Cos i only need to listen only de.. Haha.. And i left 375 to do for fridaY.. Haha..

* 2 Feb 2007, FridaY *
Haha.. Finally today is friday.. Haha.. Haha.. Can go home at 5.30pm.. SO so happy.. Haha.. Today keep on doing the creation of the 375 pages.. Haha... Ernest sudden come in and talk to me about the graduate portfolio things.. Haha.. Talk and talk then he say he guess that only half of the student will come and upload their graduate portfolio.. haha.. Then i ask him, then that mean that i no need to create anymore is it? Haha.. Then he ask me how many pages i created.. haha.. i told him i created 1125 pages liao.. Haha.. Haha.. He told me see how many i can do.. Haha..Cos he guess not all will turn up de.. Haha.. But actually i was joking de lah.. Haha.. Cos in the end i still finished the last 375 pages lor.. Haha.. And i even ask Ernest to do work.. Haha.. I think i am the first and only one who would dare to ask supervisor to do work de ba.. Haha.. But also no choice lah.. Haha.. Cos the web is on live liao.. And through the system, he is the only one that had the rights to change it.. Haha.. So he need to do it liao.. Haha..

Then today did a lot of changes to the course information.. Haha.. Do too many and make a lot of mistakes lor.. Haha.. And keep on making changes to it.. Haha.. After making the changes, went to find Ernest... Haha.. Cos need to tell him the changes that i had made and he need to check and set it to 'active' [which means set it to live] ... haha.. Went to find him @ ard 4.45pm.. After talking to him, almost 5 liao.. Then he see his watch and ask me to go home now.. Haha.. Then he ask me have i finished the work.. haha.. I told him i have finished all including the creation of the pages.. haha.. So he ask me to go home early @ 5pm to have a good rest.. Cos nxt week will be a busy day for all of us.. haha..

* 3 Feb 2007, SaturdaY *
Haha... Today i nv go out.. Haha.. Stay @ home and have a good good rest... Haiz.. No choice.. Sick liao lor.. But luckily not tt serious.. Jus sore throat and flu.. Then continue with my project that i have not done for quite long.. and managed to do some.. Haha.. Then help mum to do some housework, accompanying my mum to NTUC to buy things.. Haha.. After that, rest again.. Cos sick getting worse liao lor.. Haha.. Sleep quite early on sat de... i think ard 12 plus ba.. Haha..

*4 Feb 2007, SundaY *
Haha... Today Morning no voice lor... Haha.. Talk to my mum.. Then she laugh lor.. Cos no voice to talk to her.. Haha.. But luckily after eating medicine, and have a good rest and i have recover a bit.. At least i can talk with some voice lor.. Haha.. haha.. At eveing time, went out with SH.. Haha.. And went back home @ 11 plus ba..

Haha.. I think i should stop here liao.. Haha.. Too long liao.. Haha.. i write till i wan to fall asleep.. haha..

[ zHeN ]

11:33 AM